"I'm Lucky i'm in love with my bestfriend
Lucky to have been where I have been
Lucky to be coming home again"
Sounds familiar with that lyrics? Yes, yess. It was "Lucky" by Jason Mraz feat. Colbie Caillat. For me, it was a pretty song, yet sweet and easy listening. I love this song at that time, Jason Mraz is sucha cool singer!
Why am i talking about this song?
This song giving us an idea that having a romantic things with your best friend (in opposite sex) is such a great idea. Okay.. Wait a sec. I don't really understand with their story behind the song, till they finally said it as a lucky moment.
The truth is, in my experiences, (yes, using 's' letter, plural) it doesn't always become a great story. They said, it is hard to have a best friend in opposite sex because, well, in the end, one of them will be fall for each other and BAM! Things become waaay too complicated. Either that person choose to keep the feeling, or choose to say it directly. Both options having their own risk. a Big risk.
I knowwwww. This is such a classic story, eh?
Whatever our choice, i always feel sad when i have to losing my great relationship, in whatever-reason. I've lost my some of my best friends, actually. A girl and 2 boys. In the case of my girl best friend, i'm the one who cut it off. I felt really sad and it was a really hard decision to made with all the consideration. It doesn't work well, fyi. we both act like strangers now. Deep down inside, i don't wanna do that but i just wanna feel 'comfortable', just like what we basically need from our best friend.
And sadly,
The Universe give me another similar case, now. uh-oh.
Just like every moment on my life, i think that G-d told us to learn, then so do i.
I realize that a relationship between a very good friends will win in everything. If i have to gambled away my strong relationship that have been built for many years, then i won't.
I miss my good moments with some of good friends, that looks like imposible-to-make-it-up :)
But deep down inside, i always have a big willing.. to let it be as usual.
A willing, to go back tp that OMG-so-fun period. The time when we can share stories and laughs real crazy.
Oh, dear Time. At this time, i believe on you to heals the everything.
The truth is, in my experiences, (yes, using 's' letter, plural) it doesn't always become a great story. They said, it is hard to have a best friend in opposite sex because, well, in the end, one of them will be fall for each other and BAM! Things become waaay too complicated. Either that person choose to keep the feeling, or choose to say it directly. Both options having their own risk. a Big risk.
I knowwwww. This is such a classic story, eh?
Whatever our choice, i always feel sad when i have to losing my great relationship, in whatever-reason. I've lost my some of my best friends, actually. A girl and 2 boys. In the case of my girl best friend, i'm the one who cut it off. I felt really sad and it was a really hard decision to made with all the consideration. It doesn't work well, fyi. we both act like strangers now. Deep down inside, i don't wanna do that but i just wanna feel 'comfortable', just like what we basically need from our best friend.
And sadly,
The Universe give me another similar case, now. uh-oh.
Just like every moment on my life, i think that G-d told us to learn, then so do i.
I realize that a relationship between a very good friends will win in everything. If i have to gambled away my strong relationship that have been built for many years, then i won't.
I miss my good moments with some of good friends, that looks like imposible-to-make-it-up :)
But deep down inside, i always have a big willing.. to let it be as usual.
A willing, to go back tp that OMG-so-fun period. The time when we can share stories and laughs real crazy.
Oh, dear Time. At this time, i believe on you to heals the everything.
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